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Business is an awful lot like gardening. (We’ve talked about this before, in fact.) Few things happen immediately.  And if you want corn in the fall, you have to plant it in the spring.  Right now is the slow season for many of you – you’re not in the middle of the “harvesting” of serving […]

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  • Jessica S - Absolutely! I recently took this approach when I gave my client their gallery link after their reveal session. No matter how many times I told them AND showed them, they still had questions. When I changed over to short and sweet and numbered, less questions. I’m seeing more countdowns in my future.

    As a side question, how many times does it take the “average” person to hear and see something before they really understand it?ReplyCancel

    • Taryn - Jessica,
      I’ve heard the secret number is 3 🙂ReplyCancel

    • Jenika - Interesting question! Unfortunately it’s impossible to answer, because it depends on the complexity of what they’re trying to understand, whether the thing they’re trying to understand is social, numerical, abstract, tangible, complex, etc. Usually the problem you’re up against is not whether they will understand it, but whether they will take the time to figure it out. Extremely few things in the average service business are hard to understand and could be understood on the first try if someone pays attention. The risk is that they’re not paying attention or, possibly, that they did not commit it to memory and so the concept is “stored” with similar ideas and that’s where the confusion arises. So making things quick and concrete the first time is your best bet, followed by explaining the same thing in a couple different ways (verbally when you meet or over the phone, graphically, in words, etc) to cover different learners and remind people. Hope that helps.ReplyCancel

  • Nathan T - This makes so much sense! Thanks for this simple and sensible information !ReplyCancel

    • Jenika - My pleasure Nathan! 😀 Thanks for your note.ReplyCancel

  • Steph - Brilliant! Clearly that age-old saying, “less is more”, stands true! (At least to get that initial connection and glance)
    I used to work at my local newspaper as a graphic designer. Oh my goodness how we VERY OFTEN tried to get the stick-in-the-mud clients that proclaimed, “I’ve ALWAYS done it this way and I want ppl to see EVERYTHING I sell” to realize they don’t have to put EVERYTHING carried in their store on their tiny 1″x2″ advertisement in the paper. People just DONT like to read. So I know what I’m doing on my website this week!
    I’m loving these emails. These particularly are really hitting home.
    Thanks jenika!ReplyCancel

  • Joseph - Lots of great advice. I’ve learned the hard way on a few occasions. And having a contract really does help, but I like the idea of sowing seeds even before signing a contract and in addition to a contract. Thanks! 🙂ReplyCancel

    • Jenika - Thanks Joseph! I agree – contracts are vital, but nice to have added things that make everything easier. Hope you enjoy your week!ReplyCancel

  • Simon Dewey - Such great advice – so much of our work is managing client expectations – and even if you do it in person, information gets lost along the way.ReplyCancel

Like most traps, it’s got two halves. The first half:  That the way clients hear something described impacts their desire to have it. Psychologists call this a “framing effect.” For example:  People prefer meat labeled “75% lean” over meat labeled “25% fat.”  Even though either way, you’re getting the same thing. This applies in more […]

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When you make the leap from “doing something you love” over to “selling something,” you quickly find yourself in uncomfortable situations. When you were taking photos for the fun of it, you could easily walk up to someone and say “hey, can I take your picture?” But feels completely different to say “Hey, can you pay […]

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  • Stuart Hasson - Thank you for all of your help and inspiration. I’ve gained so much confidence. I sincerely appreciate it.ReplyCancel

  • Brian Fleming - Remember there is a solution to every problem you just have to solve it slowly and think it wisely.ReplyCancel

I’m sensing that this is a busy week for everyone. So instead of asking you to read a post, I thought I’d do a (gasp!) video so you could listen while you’re finishing up fall orders or making Halloween costumes. The topic? How to get clients to do what you want them to do! Give […]

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  • Michael - Always a joy to read, and listen! Thanks for the 14…ReplyCancel

    • Jenika - Thanks Michael! I appreciate you leaving me a kind word. 🙂ReplyCancel

  • Vicki - Enjoyed your “make sense” post! The option to listen got me off the sofa to tidy up one room…so thank you for that too.ReplyCancel