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The Embarrassment of Procrastination + New Class Announcement

By Jenika | May 22, 2019 |

  I sat on my college dorm floor with a set of watercolors, trying to paint a simple Christmas tree.  In my head, I saw a series of elegant green strokes forming a beautiful fir outline.  Guys.  When I started painting, it was like, cartoonishly bad.  Like something you’d see tacked on corkboard strips in…

The Psychology of Procrastination + How to Finish That Class

By Jenika | May 20, 2019 |

The lights glared in my face, but I could still see the couple hundred photographers assembled.  I love that first moment of giving a speech. “How many of you have, on your computer at home, at least one class that you’ve paid for, but haven’t finished?” A collective whoosh as everyone in the room raises…

The Final Piece (Target Client Mastery 5/5)

By Jenika | March 28, 2019 |

How To Talk About Tough Things Without Feeling Awkward (Target Client Mastery 4/5)

By Jenika | March 27, 2019 |

Have you ever told someone about something that was bothering you, and they waved their hand and said, blithely, “You don’t need to worry about that” and moved on? (Variations: “You’re overthinking it,” “Nah, it’ll be okay,” etc). They may have meant well, and perhaps they were right that you didn’t need to worry. But…